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I recommend not telling them outright that you overheard them, but subtly suggesting it if you get a chance. Be the bigger person, but comment that you're worried about your image, and use their own words as examples of things you're worried about. Also, make sure to comment how glad you are that you can trust them to be upfront and honest, and not talk about you behind your back. I was in the bathroom in my dorm room once when my roommate came back with her friends. She started talking about me just as I was finishing, so I washed up and walked out, smiling and greeting her as if I hadn't heard her, even though I obviously had. The look on her face was priceless - the entire group quickly moved to someone else's room.

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I recommend not telling them outright that you overheard them, but subtly suggesting it if you get a chance. Be the bigger person, but comment that you're worried about your image, and use their own words as examples of things you're worried about. Also, make sure to comment how glad you are that you can trust them to be upfront and honest, and not talk about you behind your back. I was in the bathroom in my dorm room once when my roommate came back with her friends. She started talking about me just as I was finishing, so I washed up and walked out, smiling and greeting her as if I hadn't heard her, even though I obviously had. The look on her face was priceless - the entire group quickly moved to someone else's room.

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#2 - wow, that's some intense passive-aggressive shit right there Yeah, this probably means they are jealous. I've noticed girls tend to pick out the good qualities of ugly chicks and complement them, while putting down girls they think are attractive. I guess they think of them as competition. Clarifying here, not all girls do this, but I've noticed that most of those who gossip do. Since 'skinny' is usually a good thing, they probably actually envy you. Unless you're anorexic and disgusting. However, if that were the case, they'd probably actually tell you and try to get you to be healthier instead of saying it behind your back.

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Ive lookes up passive agressive... whats worse being the bigger person and stay calm and nice like #2 suggests or going all ape $h°¡ on them or what? she supposed to be nice and confront them? Id ignore. i been called anorexic and to skinny. I eat like a horse but i work like one to.

most girls wouldnt be driven to say stuff like that unless theres something about you that makes them want to say something so ugly. it cant just be jealousy.

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