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By Anonymous / Thursday 4 June 2015 12:26 / United States - San Bruno
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By  imkool136  |  22

Umm. You should talk to him? Let him know that you would've liked something more physical maybe? Either way, good luck and I hope that you can get your own needs satisfied as well.

By  Rocklegend_16  |  15

That's definitely grounds for dumping his sorry ass

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  tormcn  |  26

I agree with #5. it's not that he won't have sex, it's the way in which she was rejected. She was trying to be sexy. He was disrespectful, and yes.. deserves to be dumped.

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  Aimeejasmine  |  15

Intimacy is always a tricky topic, it's where you're most vulnerable. The way OPs boyfriend treated OP reflects the respect he holds for her, he clearly doesn't care is she feels rejected or embarrassed, so yes I would say if it's ongoing then it's time to move on.

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  leogachi  |  15

@66 Immediately breaking up with him would be hasty. She should at least discuss it with him and make sure he knows he was being rude when he hung up on her. I can see why this would be a bump.in the road, but not being able to move past it is extreme.

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  ninety  |  25

The way I interpret is not bc he wouldn't sleep with her, but the way he handled the situation. His reply was one sentence after which he just hung up on her. What he said and how he said it was just pretty douchey in general, unless of course there's more to the story, like they had been fighting before or something.

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Why is it? It's different when it's the other way round and guys want to have sex and they are rejected, why should it be the same for her, maybe the guy just didn't feel like having sex and relieved himself another way doesn't mean he's in the wrong.

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It's not a problem that he didn't want to have sex. What was inconsiderate was how he went about rejecting it. He should have texted her promptly with a "sorry, not right now" rather than making her wait half an hour and then giving a response that implied that a kleenex was better company than her.

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  gichikku  |  14

#34 Maybe because he HUNG UP ON HER. That's pretty inconsiderate and rude to me. Not only that, but she asked him a question and he was a smartass with his response before doing so.

By  SpartyOnWayne  |  18

Find a new boyfriend, OP. Sounds like he's in a better relationship with his right hand :P

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  leogachi  |  15

I think it's just easier to assume that the guy doesn't have a fleshlight because they're not as common as dildos. It's not that he CAN'T have one, it's just easier to assume that he doesn't.

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