That sounds like the sort of excuse the morbidly obese use for being single. Personal grooming and hygeine is a reflection of ones personality traits, people don't lose lovers because of how they look, but rather the attitudes and (in)actions that led them to that state.

35 - Nice try, but being obese and having some HAIR on your upper lip is completely different. Obesity is unhealthy for anyone, while facial hair is socially acceptable for men but deemed "gross" and "ugly" on women. Also, ******* bullshit about shaving having anything to do with hygiene. That's like saying any guy who has a mustache is dirty.

Shaving isn't hygeine, you missed the point. Hygeine and grooming are seperate but equal factors to ones appearance. Neglecting either is a sign that a person cares little for themselves and less for their mate. That's why it's such a turnoff.

Yes, but women are expected to do much much more "grooming" than men are. Shaving/Hair is just one example: Men are generally expected to keep their hair neat and to shave their beards, whereas women are expected to remove every piece of hair that does not sit on top of their heads, in addition to keeping that hair perfectly coiffed. If women have facial hair/pubic hair/whatever, they are called "ugly", "dirty", "lazy", "unhygienic" and other similar things, but men are not.

Yup, it is FAR from fair, but it is the societal norm that people have been comditioned to respond to. Sure, you can get past it, but not with everyone.

Some girls make their boyfriends shave too. It's not only girls that have to shave everything. And also if a guy has a beard, they are considered scruffy looking. Which for lack of a better term, means bummy. Women are not the only ones characterized by body hair.

I have the same issue. I fail to understand how people can blindly maintain that "love" should forgive every poor choice, abusive action and unilateral decision they make. True love is a wonderful thing, but it is a balance between partners, not an indestructible rope binding another person to you.

True I'm surprised he didn't accidentally do what my mom did to me once and rip off some of the skin from her lip. Which hurts like ass btw.

13- not that I justify him doing that, but I'm assuming the boyfriend has mentioned the facial hair thing, because she wrote "I realized that my boyfriend REALLY has a problem with my upper lip"... I dunno, to me it sounds like she confirmed the doubt...

21- She shouldn't have to if she doesn't want to do it.

I'm sure since she was sleeping and was awoken by hot wax being ripped off her face, that it not only hurt like hell but freaked her out... Where is the exaggeration in her statement exactly?

Wtf are you talking about. It does hurt. I once waxed everything - and I mean everything - for my ex. It was god awful. And don't even get me started on the ingrown hairs.

What the hell!!!???!! Are You just Numb all over??! That shit Is Painful!!!

Attracted*

Those people that thumbed me down are hairy little monsters. :p

U mad bro?

U mad

Still mad?

Lawllll

I love how they keep deleting my comments. Even my correction. How ******* bias.

What is this, a school-yard sand pit? Grow the hell up, Drifter.

I agree.

I'm sorry, it was meant as a joke but I see that this subject touches some VERY sensitive nerves, so I'll endeavour to keep personal grooming jokes to myselff.