116
FML - The follow-up

Today, I opened up to my boyfriend about being sexually abused in the past. He said it explains why I'm "such a bitch" when it comes to personal contact. FML

btoker Say more :
Hi guys, OP here. He is my ex now, because I decided that his aggressive undertones means I might be in for a repeat. He is pretty aggressive in general, and this is one of a few examples so its probably best to move on before its too late. I'm 22 years old and was abused at 16, so he doesn't understand how I couldn't be over it by now. I'm currently looking for other places to live because we live together. Thank you all for the positive support, I am going to try to get myself into a better si
By btoker - / Thursday 15 October 2015 16:16 / United States - New York
Add a comment
You must be logged in to be able to post comments!
Create my account Sign in
Top comments
Comments
Reply

Too many negative votes, comment buried. Show the comment

He obviously doesn't understand the impact you've had from it. He's a prick, don't listen to him op. I'm sorry for what's happened to you and good luck in the future. Hopefully you can find someone a lot more understanding than him

When I opened up to my boyfriend, who is now my husband, he suggested that we take it slow and didn't rush me into anything. At the time he was a 19 year old with raging hormones. If your boyfriend can't be patient with you and won't accept that you will have sex with him at the times you feel comfortable, I think you should consider leaving him. There are plenty of men out there who will understand and make sure you are comfortable. Good luck, OP.

Loading data…