By anonymous - 22/01/2016 01:55 - United States - Bellefontaine

Today, I met up with my dad for the first time in 7 years. We planned to go to a nice restaurant but he changed the place we were going to, to Chuck E. Cheese. I'm 18 years old. I waited an hour for him to show up. I then ended up babysitting his daughter the whole time. FML
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Same thing different taste

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And parent of the year goes too... You because you did more for his kid than he did for either of you

Sorry OP. Somethings are just not meant to be, especially after 7 years and now this

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If you forget about The awful dad for a moment, you basically you also met your sister. That's at least some kind of a positive thing :)

This may not be in your best interest but perhaps a beer while you are there can be a bit of a pick me up

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She can't legally have a beer since she's 18 and is in Ohio.

I'm sure he had something really urgent you know, something must've came up.. but the real question is, what about the past 7 years?!

If I hadn't seen him in seven years, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have waited an hour.

I agree! After 15 minutes I would of left. Sorry you waisted your time on someone who doesn't seem to think that it is valuable OP.

sorry that happened to you OP but..did he pay you for babysitting at least?

now what's the the master plan of pay back

at least you now know that he obviously isnt ready to have a relationship yet, and maybe in a few years, if youre still open to the idea, you can try again. in the mean time, maybe you can build a relationship with his daughter

Can't say you didn't put the effort into that relationship, sometimes you just have to leave the past in the past and hold on to any decent memories you have of it.

Tell him he needs to do a better job or he never will.

Who ever said a parent treats all their children the same..