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By Q / Tuesday 20 May 2014 17:27 / United States
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By  reesingah  |  12

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  sweetbliss3  |  32

obviously not. besides, those are two very different things. one provides nourishment and the other, not even close. its your house and she can breastfeed wherever she chooses and he can deal with it or leave, preferrably without comments like that.

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  Garrett2818  |  21

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  Garrett2818  |  21

Is it 7? Wow you would think it would become counterproductive and fuck your liver up.

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  Garrett2818  |  21

I was referring to 22's comment that said urine doesn't provide nourishment, but if you can drink it 7 times as opposed to dehydrating and possibly dying then clearly there's some nourishment there. Or did you miss that part to?

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  Garrett2818  |  21

Learn something new everyday. Thanks guys

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  Zebediabolical  |  36

US Army survival field manuals say DO NOT DRINK. Bear Grylls says it's ok to do it once or twice before it becomes counterproductive. I trust both of those more than random numbers that people throw out on this website, that's for sure.

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  nlm92  |  15

225 - yeah you could probably distill it if you could gather the resources to do so. Boil it, funnel the steam onto an above surface to produce condensation and angle that surface towards a drinking cup or vessel of some kind. It'll filter out the water, leaving behind the waste material. You could do this more than twice anyway.

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  kelsorg  |  21

you can only drink it once if you have a negative blood type, apparently negative blood types can only filter "self toxins" once with no harm. learned that in honors anatomy.

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  nlm92  |  15

Yeah, some people are so immature/naive about sexuality and natural bodily functions. Previous generations stigmatized nudity and stuff so much that it just blinds people. Why can't he just look the other way? It's OP's house anyway

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  XxNightwingxX  |  20

@81 Ha! Haha! Hahaha! I see what you did there!

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  Lacist  |  19

What a complete tit, if that ever happened I'd be pretty pissed at him for a while. If he doesn't know that what your wife was doing is okay then I seriously wonder who's been feeding him these lies.

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  Fmlsea  |  26

alot of people give breast feeding mothers dirty looks too . its amazing how many judgemental people are out there, at least breastfeeding mothers cover themselves up while doing it .

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  littlekellilee  |  41

I worked at a pool and a woman breastfed in the water, not covering herself up. I still feel like it was unhygienic for the baby, considering the chlorine in the water. We weren't allowed to say anything though and a ton of kids and teens were watching.

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#193 literally in the pool? and a public one too? I know thats its necessary to feed your kid but everytime I've seen a mother in public she always covers herself with a towel or blanket.

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  9echo  |  17

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  lulinator  |  38

No woman should have to go elsewhere to feed a baby if she feels comfortable enough to do it in her current location. If you're allowed to sit on the couch and have a coffee, a baby should be allowed to have a jug of milk on the couch, too. Most women are extremely discreet while nursing, it's really a non-issue.

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If somebody asked me not to feed my child in front of them I'd probably do it anyways, especially in my own home. I don't get why people are so uptight about stuff like this, especially in the US.. Boobs are not offensive. Plenty of hefty men let their saggy chests hang out and it's perfectly fine but God forbid a woman feed her child!

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  R3TROxLOV3  |  32

@75 & 78, you're both idiots. She was in her OWN home providing nourishment for her new born child. If you're a guest in someone's home and they're doing something you don't prove of, suck it the fuck up. He had no right to behave the way he did, and the fact that the two of you are trying to justify his behavior is ridiculous. If, when I have a child, I want to breast feed my child in the comfort of my OWN HOME, I will do so. If someone has something negative to say, I will not so politely tell them exactly how and where to go fuck themselves.

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  clrichmond2009  |  24

thank you, 88! my grandfather threw a total hissy fit when I breastfed in my living room while he was over and I was nice enough to put a cover over myself and the baby! the next day, I made it a point NOT to cover up. still couldn't see anything, but I got my point across.

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  kuzzy00  |  22

Dear god... You women are such patriotic, pretentious, hummer-driving assholes! Breast feeding (where the breast is shown) IS offensive and makes people uncomfortable! All my life; my family have told aunties/cousins etc to "cover up" - it's like using a napkin to cover your mouth when using a tooth pick. It's about being COURTEOUS! My female family members often talk to anyone while feeding, but are covered. Is it okay for woman to walk around shirtless? Are men allowed to walk around naked in their own home when guests are over? Then why do you think it's ok to flash tits to guests that come over. HAVE SOME RESPECT!! It's like the equal of using "the N word" with my black mates but muttering it around guests. It's GENERALLY offensive. Get off your high pedastools and accept that there are some people who are ok with it; there are the vast majority who are not :)

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  kuzzy00  |  22

Furthermore, I would like to point out that I don't think it's acceptable a woman has to go to another room. It's her house; her lounge etc. my point is - respect the views of others. Not everyone is comfortable with it - when in doubt, cover up.

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  R3TROxLOV3  |  32

132, I can't tell if you're being facetious, or if you're actually just an idiot. I'm sincerely hoping it's the former. Walking around topless or naked, and breast feeding are completely different things. She's providing nutrition for her child, there's nothing dirty about that. Also, it's nothing like using the N word, which leads be to believe that you're actually just an idiot.

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  rc89  |  9

I breastfeed my son in front of all my relatives and In public no one has any right to tell you not to "whip it out" its the most natural thing in the world. would you like it if you weren't allowed to eat/drink in front of other people and lets face if you dont like it DONT FRICKEN LOOK !!!!!!!

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  BrotherPhil  |  31

Maybe they should have individual cubicals for mealtimes? Pretty sure they're not Venusian.

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  Brandi_Faith  |  33

I agree that it's ok to feed your baby anywhere. However, with that said, I don't think it's necessary to whip your boob out in public (and before the baby is on it) without a blanket over you. It's very easy to throw a blanket over you when breast feeding (especially with all the cute covers there are now) and I think it's polite when you're in public. Of course this situation where the OP is in her own house is different, but I was just responding to the other comments about feeding in public places.

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  jamieann1214  |  4

As long as your covered in public Olive feel you should be able to breast feed whenever. Except for the lady that came through the drive through the other day breast feeding in the car. She was covered but that baby should be in a car seat. If he's hungry go home and feed him before you feed yourself!

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You obviously have never nursed a baby that doesn't want to be covered and is loudly protesting the fact while you try to get the little one to latch. It actually draws more attention than if you hadn't bothered with the cover in the first place. Also, remember: boobs are for feeding and aren't in themselves sexual. It is our culture that makes them sexual.

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  Volcan_fml  |  22

#5, what the everloving fuck is wrong with you?

By  worldclassrager  |  38

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  Palirose  |  22

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  slyde32  |  12

breast feeding is natural, it's not "too public" at the shops, or train station, if the baby needs feeding, the baby needs feeding, simple as that. I also have no idea how your living room is, but in my house I don't have a public walk way going through it, and I'll do what I want in it

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  Joisan  |  20

What #37 said. When my niece and nephew were babies, it was pretty common that my sister in law would need to feed them while my parents and I were over visiting. We politely looked away until she was covered again and had the baby settled, and after that it was no big deal.

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  idiotgenius  |  15

@35 Shitting is natural when you have to shit you have to shit. At the train stop or shops it's not too public, when you have to shit you have to shit, simple as that. (except natural doesn't equal public event)

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  rocker_chick23  |  27

#47: I breast fed my son when family and friends were over and they did the same. I don't know why people think breast feeding is some disgusting act that needs to be hidden from the world.

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  LostMy_Marbles  |  23

If someone has a problem with it then they can choose to walk away and not look. Why should she feel like a prisoner or outsider in her OWN home? Her FIL is family, not a stranger so why should she feel the need to hide away. Her baby needs feeding and so he should be fed. Anyone who has a huge problem with someone breast feeding at home/in a shop/at a park should just MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS!!

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  littlem91  |  29

Breastfeeding is a child eating. Simple as that. The fact we have become a society where a that act, which can be hourly or 2-hourly for months (formulas are heavy which is why it's sometimes longer on them) is considered wrong in public is ridiculous. It's just food. And once mastered most women can do it with less visible boob than most women's cleavages! It isn't, never has been and never will be the same as an adult expelling waste in public for all to see.

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  mageepaigeee44  |  15

If breasts weren't seen as a sex symbol we wouldn't have this problem. They're just fat pockets that provide a use for feeding infants. Come on people. Women should be allowed to do it where ever they need to. It's not like they're whipping out their tatas and doing a strip tease. They're feeding a child. Breasts are just part of the body. Men walk around without a shirt on so why can't women breast feed in public?? Absolutely ridiculous.

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Wtf, her own living room is too public?! Pretty sure inside your own home is the least public place, unless she's supposed to breastfeed behind locked doors? It's weirds me out that some people are so conditioned to think of breasts as "always sexual" that they are uncomfortable with them in any other context.

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  gracehi  |  31

Since when are breasts obscene? I bet you guys are fine with Victoria's Secret models flaunting them in the mall, or a stripper wagging them in your face, but the moment a woman uses her breasts for their NATURAL PURPOSE all of a sudden you're uncomfortable. Grow up.

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  horneyhic  |  15

It's her house if she wants to walk around buck ass naked with Guests over that's her buisness if the guests don't like that door they used to get in goes both ways.

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  Anomomous  |  15

There is a difference between family and guests. The father was a complete douche bag and should be shot in the balls. If it was a business colleague or a friend, I could understand the point (but the reaction was still unforgivable). I wouldn't want to watch a friend's wife or a business partner's wife breast feeding a child, but a daughter-in-law? He can get the fuck over it and grovel at his son's and grandchild's feet to ever be allowed in that home again.

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  crazytwinsmom  |  25

My husband was uncomfortable when I breastfed my babies in a park far away from anyone else and kept completely covered at all times.

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  slyde32  |  12

@48 you're not going to starve and cry from holding your shit in until you find a toilet. I don't care how "offensive" breastfeeding in public is, I'd rather sit next to a woman breastfeeding her child than sit next to a crying baby because the mother is too concerned about offending people.

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  Laurenlou  |  24

#108 THANK YOU! There are Victoria's Secret billboards and commercials everywhere. People are not offended by that, but are rather encouraging of "sex sells" advertisements! Yet when a woman uses her breast for what they are made for, people go ape shit! Most breastfeeding women do cover up and that's way less exposed skin that the average teen girl.

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  supersitter  |  11

You're an idiot. I guess your living is too public a place for you to eat too #7. Better go eat all your meals hiding in your bedroom from now on, we wouldn't want to offend anyone.

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  kaytasha  |  17

Are you for real? Really really? Or are you just sh*ting us for the fun of it! Its her house for crying out loud and she can do whatever she wants. Breast feeding is a natural and beautiful thing!

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  BekkyLove15  |  14

If you think that's how it should be, maybe you should go eat in your room when you have guests over. You know, so that it's not 'too public' for the people that are grossed out by YOU eating.

By  AwkwardPartyBear  |  24

It's not the breast idea for your dad to start acting like a baby over such a small situation he was trying to erect. I would be pissed too OP. It's not your fault or your wife's fault he was acting like a dick.

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8- be more original next time. Genocide is funnier than this comment.

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