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I'm 16, I lost my virginity at 14. If anybody cares...this shit sucks. Let's be honest tho, sex is great. But losing your virginity too early will fuck. You. Over. And yes, 14 is WAY too young OP, trust me, I know lol. But back to what I was tryna say. Save yourself until you REALLY find THE ONE. Because if you lose it to the wrong person your view on life will change drastically.

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Although some states allow 15 years of age, it's still pretty young for a person. 73 & 86 - all states have a minimum consensual age, ranging from 15-18, 16 being most common.

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True, but the pill rarely fails. It only fails if you don't take it daily like you're supposed to. If you miss even one day you're not good to have sex for about a month of taking it daily. Too many people think that they can just take it whenever they want to have sex, and that's not true. My parents were married for 12 years before deciding to have me, and they never even had a close call in those 12 years. When they decided to have me and my mom got off the pill, my mom got pregnant immediately. But for 12 whole years before that, there were no issues.

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I lost mine 11th grade and as long as you play it safe and do it with someone you trust, there's nothing wrong with it. Use protection and take it slow and make sure you actually care about the person.

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#57 no, the pill fails sometimes even if taken as directed. That's why it isn't claimed to work 100% of the time. My mother took it perfectly, and obviously if she's my mother, it didn't work.

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#140 It only fails if your body doesn't absorb the pill properly, or if you have unusual hormone levels and should be on a stronger pill. The first can be caused by throwing up, diarrhea, being on antibiotics or other medicine, intestines not functioning properly, you take the pill just before going to sleep, etc. You really have to know your body.

Dude, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with saving yourself for the right one! Not one single thing. If he is stupid enough to lose his virginity so early, that's HIS loss, not an insult to you. I bet my bottom dollar, whoever he slept with is not going to be his "one and only"!!!

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Yeah, and how is it his "loss"? The little shit is obviously happy about losing his virginity, so what if it's with someone he won't end up settling down with? Losing your virginity isn't special, having sex isn't special. "Making love" is what's special and you don't need to be a virgin to do that. Being a virgin is a point of fact, not a badge of honor.

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Obviously, you're missing the point: the OP doesn't deserve to be mocked for his choices. Besides, losing one's virginity at such young age is not something to use as a point of pride.

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I'm not missing the point, I called him a little shit so you'd understand that. Everyone's calling him out on being a dick but hardly anyone is calling people like you out for doing a similar kind of judging and "bragging" from another angle.

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Maybe OP doesn't want to wait for the super special love of his life to have sex with, maybe he's just been unlucky. I don't think it makes him better than any other person having safe/consensual sex but either way he doesn't deserve to be sneered at for it.

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#19 Overreact much? My previous comment wasn't even directed at you, but at previous commenter. As for your point regarding my "judging and bragging," the ONLY reason everybody is calling the 14-year-old a dick is because he himself is using his "achievement" to put down his own brother. Had he been respectful, neither I, not anyone else here would bat an eyelash at his loss of virginity: to each its own. However, because he feels he achieved something to brag about, a prompt put-down is necessary!

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Who said there was? And honestly, I'd much rather have someone who isn't caked with STDs and who I can walk into a public place with and know they haven't screwed half of the people there.

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