How on Earth would you know if he/ she is annoying?

5 - Maybe because "everyone" says so? Sorry, OP, but you probably ARE unintentionally annoying. Ask them what exactly annoys them and maybe you can improve it?

I have to concur, even though we may not know they are annoying, if x amount of people say so it has to be correct. Just look at Taylor swift for example, everyone says she sings good... They couldn't possibly be wrong...

#10: It's impossible to please "everyone". People called me annoying, and so I tried changing for them. It made me miserable, and they hated me even more. You can't win. The most important thing one can do is be happy with oneself. Don't change just to please people.

I have to agree with #13. The whole "everyone believes it so it's true" argument is full of holes. Ask anyone, they'll tell you.

@10, you're annoying

Maybe you shouldn't change yourself, but at the same time everyone has annoying traits that could probably be toned down. If you like these people and really are friends with them, you could ask them what it is that annoys them and try toning it down a bit if you want. Remember how Ross (from Friends) corrected everyone's grammar all the time, he knew it bugged his friends and tried to tone it down. Don't change everything about yourself but changes a few things never hurt anything.

Well I've seen firsthand how some girls are jealous of another girl and they think the girl is annoying because of it. We can't say for sure though. & some people say I'm annoying because I am laidback and won't do everything they do, so they call me boring and annoying, and I being smart forget about their negativity.

You don't even know this person. An it's sad that people can be such aholes. He shouldn't change for anyone. He should continue to be himself. I bet he's an amazing person once you get to know him. Honestly I'm a pretty off person most people steamed clear of me my whole school life minus high school. Once you get to know me though I'm really fun to be around. I'm a sarcastic person who likes to crack jokes about the truth so it's not as rough when you hear it.

#2 What??

23, presumably referencing the "it puts the lotion on the skin" line from whichever hannibal movie.

This needs a followup

On top of that, she might also put in a good word to those who think OP is annoying.

it might just be her friends that she's reffering to.