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By I'm_Not_Interested / Monday 6 July 2015 05:30 / United States - Reno
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  Aimeejasmine  |  15

What's sad is every girl has experienced this, felt used and worthless afterwards, and had to deal with the angry after blow from some sexually frustrated man-child. Then that jerk has the nerve to complain about a 'friendzone' like we owe them our body because they treated us like an actual human for a few months. Guys like this give men a bad rep smh

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  iAlissa  |  34

I agree with 39. While not all mean are like this, a majority of the males I know feel quite entitled to sex. That could also be because my male friends are between 17-25, and are in process of discovering the peak of their annoying sex drives.

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  Aimeejasmine  |  15

Yet when we're of the same age and our sex drive goes through the roof, most women still know how to treat people with dignity and respect. Many do not just use guys/girls for some fun, and get offended when they actually have emotions.

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  IAmzephyr  |  22

43, if many guys you know feel entitled to sex, then you're hanging out with the wrong people. 44, many girls are also manipulative and use men. the fact of the matter is, guys tend to like girls right away and treat them with extra attention, hoping to sway their feelings, girls tend to go after the alphas, or they stay hush hush. or at least Thats what I think, because honestly I have no idea how it works XP

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  XxDevilxXGt  |  26

Or because you are friends with douchebags? Just because someone is 17-25 doesn't mean anything, to me it means you're old enough to understand how to be good to others and respect people. "sex drive" is not an excuse at all for anyone with half a brain and self control. And no, "most" girls are not saints. Guys can be shitty but girls are equally as shitty. Girls can easily be more confusing than guys too. They go out when they can with basically no pants and much cleavage and wonder why a guy has sex on his mind? I'm not saying don't wear what you want, but you have to have some awareness and be prepared to be honest with someone who seems to want something from you and openly say "im not interested", maybe in different words. Everyone has shit communication and just lets mixed signals be a thing until someone makes a mistake and then the people involved never speak again. "every girl has experienced this" tells me maybe you all need to get a little more awareness about the people around you. "Girls go for guys who respect them" yeah what a load of crap that is eh

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  MrConcise  |  34

Popularity is based upon a mix of social and antisocial behaviors plus attractiveness. So yes, girls do like a bit of "alpha" in their man, because confidence is social and aggression is antisocial, but to put it simply, there are many other combinations of traits that can give the same effect. For example, being nice is social and being shy is antisocial.

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  ThatHorse  |  15

Sadly #54 that's not true. Girls go for guys who are confident and who make them feel confident. That's not always the same as respect. Many abusive partners use their charisma to make girls feel confident enough to talk to and be with them.

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Girls go with guys who show confidence that has nothing to do with woman going with guys who show them respect some go with guys who treat them like shit because they want someone they see as better then them. i have also seen so many woman use guys who are attracted to them to ether get free stuff or get free labor

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  Baustigt  |  40

But that would mean actually spending more time with him. Even Zoolander, the greatest movie night movie of them all, couldn't break the tension in that room.

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  annalily5  |  28

It's actually much simpler to have sex than what this guy is making it out to be. For instance, he could be honest with a girl about wanting sex instead of pretending to be her friend and hoping she ends up having sex with him despite not knowing that's his intention, and despite not knowing if this long con will work.

By  abbyade  |  21

Hmmm some guys are that silly to think they could get the cookie just like that. I hope you held your own and told him to be nice to someone else. You deserve a good friend without such weird intentions.

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