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By Anonymous - / Wednesday 15 January 2014 18:25 / Italy - Pistoia
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By  yoshithecat  |  15

Be cautious, as my ex tried that same thing on me. His reasoning for it turned out to be because he was cheating on me, and wanted to make sure I wasn't doing the same! (I wasn't) Enjoy though!

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  swick25  |  22

@1 no that is far from love. he may love her but this is where she needs to have a conversation with her BF about this. it can go either way, talk to him and make him understand you are not comfortable with his actions or leave because it can turn bad and turn bad fast. I am not saying that he is abusive or anything like this so don't accuse me of it but things progress. happen to my sister on more then one occasion. so nip it in the bud and talk to him OP. And best of luck to you. and #19, unless OP gave him a reason to distrust her it is not just not trusting. that is usually the first excuse they come up with.

By  yoshithecat  |  15

Be cautious, as my ex tried that same thing on me. His reasoning for it turned out to be because he was cheating on me, and wanted to make sure I wasn't doing the same! (I wasn't) Enjoy though!

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  TheMathMajor  |  26

Yeah, people who cheat often feel guilty about it and as a result project their own feelings onto their partner and become suspicious. That's a major red flag OP, you should have a serious conversation with your boyfriend about personal space and why he's not trusting you.

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  tigerisabelle  |  31

I agree 131! Stoking is indeed a sign of an abusive relationship. Once my friend's goldfish's first owner had their boyfriend's ex-boyfriends girlfriend stoked. The burns took a long time to clean up. (Im sorry I just really couldn't pass it up) (I know you meant stalking) (I really am sorry this is one of the douchiest comments out there)

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  DotDootyDot  |  17

My ex too needed to keep tabs on me to make sure I wasn't cheating on him, even though he was the cheater through the entirety of our relationship (four years). I guess they can't handle their own poison!

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  MrConcise  |  34

So you want to spoof your location and risk proving the jealous and insecure boyfriend right, potentially setting him off? Seems safe. EDIT: Awkward, realized you were talking about the parent issue. My bad.

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87: it depends om what the spoof location is. Could be fun to be at church all week. Or stuck in a public toilet for a whole evening. Or at the zoo every night. Or in Gotham on weekends.

By  UnluckyIrishKid  |  9

Too many negative votes, comment buried. Show the comment

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No, I wasn't trying to say it was okay in any way shape or form. Just that in the boyfriend's eyes, he is going to see this as a logical thing to do, and it won't be easy to dissuade him of using the find phone function. Also, if everyone who was insecure simply didn't have relationships, there would be so many less couples it would be ridiculous.

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  jacob_bomb  |  9

"Find your Phone" doesn't show video or anything. How would he watch her in the shower? ._. It doesn't tell descriptive details or tell you what said phone holder is doing.

By  ChrisWaines  |  9

Oh Jeeze, I'm Sorry OP. guys like that are terrible, you should probably start trying to find a way to let him off easy and get out of that relationship before it turns ugly. Hugs to you, you got this.

By  bellles  |  18

I'm sorry OP, just talk to him. Communication, honesty, and trust are all key to a good relationship. Or turn off location services, anyway good luck !

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