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By superscript - / Wednesday 18 February 2015 03:40 / United States - Vancouver
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By  nonsensical  |  26

Honestly I understand that Valentine's Day is just another day if the year, and it's not special if you don't want it to be. However the fact that he lied makes him an ass.

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By  devildog562  |  33

Dibs on falcon ! You boyfriend had his priorities a twisted . Just do you and things will work out for the best op.

By  nonsensical  |  26

Honestly I understand that Valentine's Day is just another day if the year, and it's not special if you don't want it to be. However the fact that he lied makes him an ass.

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  Jay0501  |  21

You have a point but still.. He did lie to her

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  HyunnK  |  18

I agree. Why treat the man/women/dog/cat like they are number 1 on one special day? You should be treating your lover every day like it is Valentines Day.

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  Miss_Whipped  |  41

I dunno man. Roses, chocolates, and teddy bears get pricy after a while. My boyfriend actually got me this awesome boxcutter for Valentine's because he knew how upset I was when my company made me give mine back several days after I didn't work there anymore (The company didn't need the $3 worth of boxcutter by any means) and it was way more special to me. I got him a sniper rifle shaped laser pointer/flashlight/projection of three switches between 'Bullseye,' 'Gotcha!' and 'BANG!' Screw traditional shtuffz. We're silly.

By  Remembered  |  14

I'm not saying you have to break up with the guy, but you two definitely need to have a talk about what's important in the relationship. Clear it all up and make the decision then.

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  randompizzaguy  |  17

The way I see it, it could be a new relationship and he didn't want to make a giant deal out of it, and spend a lot of money. Even then, he doesn't have to celebrate Valentine's if he doesn't want to.

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54, Okay, but there are two people in a relationship. They need to be on the same page about how they feel about Valentine's Day and if they aren't, they need to compromise. Not "I don't want to celebrate it so therefore WE won't celebrate it."

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  randompizzaguy  |  17

#62 Compromise is essential, But I don't see how it would work in this case, not getting flowers and chocolate isn't a big deal in my opinion, and there are leas crowded nights to have dates, and better times to profess love. Valentine's is just silly, and no one should feel pressured into "celebrating" it.

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  Brandi_Faith  |  33

54, it doesn't matter, the fact is he lied about it. I agree that maybe he didn't want to make a big deal of it, or spend the money, or get caught up in the hype, or whatever, but he could've been honest with her and had that conversation as oppose to just lying and saying he was extremely sick. You can't have trust in a relationship if someone lies to you.

By  SalenaCrosse  |  16

The only reason I'd be upset about that if my boyfriend did this to me-is simply the fact I wasn't invited to play too XD But in your case, he did lie to you just to play some games and that is pretty upsetting :/

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  Fayern  |  13

I agree completely #6. and #52, If he has to lie about petty shit like that, I don't think he should be in a relationship I'm the first place. He could have told her like an adult what he was doing. Instead, he lied to her. Which was childish and I'd imagine very hurtful.

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  randompizzaguy  |  17

59, I'm going to disagree. By lying he was probably trying to preserve her feelings instead of saying "I'm blowing you off to hang out with the guys and play a nintendo game" On a day that most females have romanticized. It may not have been the best way to go about it, but I see his logic I guess.

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  Fayern  |  13

While it may have been in effort to 'preserve' her feelings, any woman I know would take the truth over that. We're not glass and can handle hard truths, contrary to popular belief. And if they hadn't made plans to be together on that day, he could have easily just been like "Hey, I'm hanging with the guys" If she would have flipped, OP needs to check herself. If they HAD plans and he lied to get out of it, He needs to do the same. So we'll have to agree to disagree. (: And tbh, I don't see how only women have amped the holiday. Then again, all my friends dislike the holiday as much as I do. We spent the day together playing video games and went out to dinner as a group while our boyfriends did whatever with their friends.

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