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FML - The follow-up

Today, I found out my Nan passed away. My boyfriend came over to comfort me, things got intimate and we ended up having sex. After he came, he chuckled to himself and said, "That one's for you, Nan". FML

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Hey all I'm the OP, in hindsight I should have put that my Nan recently passed away, it was a couple of days earlier, and the website insists all FMLs are started with "today". Rest assured I didn't simply find out my Nan died and proceed to have sex!
By missca - / Tuesday 16 December 2014 04:35 / Australia - Salisbury
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By  assh0l3  |  4

By  heirofhope  |  38

I'm sure he was just joking, OP. I think it's nice that he comforted you, and was probably just trying to lighten the mood. Tell him if it makes you upset, I'm sure he will understand. Sorry about your loss.

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By  ecstasy22  |  12

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By  Dramori  |  29

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By  assh0l3  |  4

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  Wolfparable  |  22

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  MrConcise  |  34

@19 - Connect with those you hold dear to mourn the loss of those you've become disconnected with. Sex is the ultimate symbol of unity; I imagine those in mourning would find that comforting after a devastating loss.

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  Fou_Lou  |  20

And there probably many more pople who find it disgusting. Comforting is a very personal and subjective thing an changes from human to human. Some like being distracted with sex for example. To some sex isnt that big of a deal as it seems to be for you.Some like the other to cheer them up. and some wouldnt even consider the remark as insensitive and just laught with him. I for once find it acceptable too as long it come from both sides and the other isnt pressured in having sex.

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  Wolfparable  |  22

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  Fou_Lou  |  20

The FML doesnt say how the sex was initiated. It could be her that have wanted sex with him. Given the wording of the FML it seems that the sex was actually ok for her as Comfort regardless of who began. Just the sentence he said after that wasnt. which is quite understandable.

By  heirofhope  |  38

I'm sure he was just joking, OP. I think it's nice that he comforted you, and was probably just trying to lighten the mood. Tell him if it makes you upset, I'm sure he will understand. Sorry about your loss.

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