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By Anna - / Thursday 2 July 2009 13:31 / United States
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  Kyothine  |  5

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  kscott88  |  5

Well, that's stupid reasoning, because the other woman obviously didn't know that she was being cheated on for four years. So don't judge, because you obviously don't know shit about it.

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  humorizer  |  5

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  springbirder2  |  5

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  easylazy  |  5

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That's a load of shit. Maybe it's slightly worse for the fiancee, but both the OP and the fiancee got screwed over, and both of them have fucked lives. And yeah, people who cheat a lot do either get very skilled, or very careless (which is when they get caught). I mean, you don't have 24-hour surveillance on your partner, so you really won't have any idea what they're doing most of the time. It's not OP's fault she didn't know her boyfriend was cheating all this time! He's clearly a very proficient cheater, as he fooled his fiancee too! I hate cheaters. All these stories you hear about cheaters make you damn paranoid

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  ReiKoko  |  5

i agree with divineinstrument. same thing happened to one of my best friends, except (thankfully) their relationship wasn't as long. her ex went out with her for 2 years, and he went out with ANOTHER girl 2 months after that and didn't tell either one. she wanted to get engaged and even dropped hints, but he told her he wasn't ready yet and proposed to the other girl. when both of them eventually found out, my friend was devastated and it took her several months to get over him. it doesn't matter who was engaged and who dated the cheating bugger for longer. in the end, both girls are crushed and betrayed and it hurts.

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  El_Jacky_D  |  5

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  sickinlove13  |  5

It should have been easy for him to get caught, actually. He was engaged and had a 4 year side relationship. He was either alternating sleeping at his fiance's and girlfriend's houses/apartments or claiming he was spending the night at his own place. I', assuming he had his own place because he couldn't live with either of the women otherwise the other one wouldn't be able to come over ever. What I don't get, though, is if he has his own place, neither of the women went they? He was with both of them for multiple years, so I would assume each had to have a few things at his place [clothes, toothbrush, make-up, etc], yet neither of the women noticed this stuff? If they never went to his place, then that's even more suspicious. Either way, this guy is the definition of a scumbag.

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  I_Bite  |  5

To those asking about spending the nights etc. A similar thing happened to a friend of mine. One was in Melbourne (the longest relationship) and the other in Perth. He moved in with them shortly after he started dating them. He also told his Perth girlfriend he was a fifo (fly in fly out) on a 1/3 roster, so for the 3 weeks he was meant to be at work he would be in Melbourne with his long term girlfriend and the one he "had off" he'd be with his Perth girlfriend. He actually worked a rotating roster in Melbourne and told his girlfriend he was going to look after his "sick grandmother" once a month in Perth

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Lol yeah he's obviously a great liar. He should be a politician. And I'm Lol-ing at the board game comment not the fact that ur bf has been cheating on two women for at least 4 years. Maybe he has more girlfriends. Didn't either of u meet his family? Are they in on this conspiracy?

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  straka88  |  12

yeah he must be really skilled, i wish i was as good at anything as he is at cheating. like, i could come up with a plan but i could never cary it out with enough precision.

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  ForestFire0  |  12

I would love it if his elderly parents were in on it. Maybe his dad will still give him high fives whenever either of them left. Ask questions about what it's like, and just generally cheer his son on.

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  Ughsucks  |  6

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By  stringking21  |  9

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By  NGM_47  |  7

Just leave him, you don't wanna be those women that take other peoples boyfriends/girlfriends, do you? Or hopefully, both of you dump him so he learns his lesson.

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