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You need to have a serious talk with him. Him not caring to please you says something (possibly) about how much he cares. Worse comes to worst, don't allow penetration until he gives you one first.

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the truth hurts. sex isn't necessarry in a long lasting relationship, yet both parties should learn to give and take. plus take it as a challenge, its a great feeling to get her to orgasm ;)

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I'm not sure why people are disliking this comment. An unsatisfying sex life is something that leads people to cheat. Especially when the partner makes it clear they don't even care about making it satisfying. I am not saying it is OK to cheat. Nor am I justifying cheating. But a situation like that can lead to cheating.

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Yeah in this situation, I would not blame op for cheating. You don't get to say "no I don't have that at my store. No we won't try to get it in stock. No you can't shop anywhere else." OP's husband sounds like a prick.

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@85 just how stupid are you? The whole point of a relationship is for love ing the person. Sex should be near the bottom of important things. It -is- important but it is far from nessesary. Nor does it excuse cheating given that cheaters are little shits who society is better off without. That and it doesn't excuse cheating. Smh some people -.-

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I'm thinking this FML is the cliffs notes version of that conversation, and if he needs that explained anyway, there's already a problem. That's not something that should require an explanation.

Why exactly are you two married again? Seems to me that either he was a great guy who turned to shit or you settled because you were sure you could change him (never happens). So either you both go the distance and get counselling or you'll just stay miserable. If he cares about you so little he shouldn't even be a one-night-stand ...

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He could honestly have believed she was having orgasms all along. She could've sprung this up suddenly and he may have asked why in a "But I always do" sort of way rather than in a "Why do you deserve it" sort of way. More women than you'd think have never had vaginal orgasms, and simply let their partner think everything is working. (He could just be an ass. I just wanted to share my theory.)

You need to have a serious talk with him. Him not caring to please you says something (possibly) about how much he cares. Worse comes to worst, don't allow penetration until he gives you one first.

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