If you wanna get technically, the n word refers to any race. It means an ignorant person. So technically it would fit her in this situation

I wanna get technically! Where is it?

My phone changed it. I meant technical

You guys mean naggers, right?

Ha! I didn't read this in time. But that's what I'm thinking too.

I told my partner I loved him after a month, he said it back(although he was surprised I loved him that early) and two years later we are still in love. just saying it can happen

Although I didn't tell him it, I was sure I was in love with my boyfriend after a month or two. Because after failure after failure I finally had found my soul mate. Of course because I was a pussy, I waited for him to say it eight months later but I still felt it long before. We just celebrated two years together, as well!

2 months seems a little early TO ME. For those who have successful relationships though you announced your love in 2 months or less, really congratulations. But that's not the point. OP had no idea his girlfriend would act this way, so I would say it was too early for him as well. It's a good idea to know each of the sides of a person as well as you can before you make a large commitment such as love.

They could have known each other for a while before dating.

He said they were dating for 2 months. I had known my wife for 4 years before we started dating.

Like I've said before "unless you've known her for a good while" and again mentioned that it was only an opinion.

Of course it's an opinion, what else would it be? Believe it or not, everyone's different, and not everyone starts dating from a blank emotional slate. Saying "you can't love someone" like that is just a stupid opinion.

It's not stupid because I'm stating it from my personal experiences and what I've seen. With these FML's we don't know the whole story. I just say what first came to mind. Who knows that he has a similar experience like me or not. People seem to only see my negative comment and not that fact I still felt bad that she laughed. Just saying.

agree with 40. shrike you're being a bit close minded and stuff.. chill out, as you so sarcastically pointed out, it is her opinion and she is entitled to it without you mocking her. and in fairness when I read it I thought exactly the same thing.

Opinions vs. opinions, nobody wins. But thanks for noticing that I was only saying what I thought like everyone else does, lol.

Some people fall in love very fast. It doesn't make it not real.

The fact is that love means something different to everyone, and just the way you worded your comment made you seem a little rude, as if you were telling OP that he isn't really in love because you know from your experiences that people can't love each other after two months. It's just a little presumptuous, no one can know what OP is feeling except for the OP.

we didn't say that it wasn't real either.. simply that it might seem a bit fast to the other half, which evidently it was. I don't understand why you're giving her so much stick and thumbing is down when other people are saying the exact same thing and getting thumbed up and agreed with? man this website annoys me sometimes

No, but really, how emotionally stunted do you have to be to be freaked out over an "I love you"? Maybe if you suffered childhood abuse or trauma relating to the words or the sentiment, but after two months of dating? It's kind of taken for granted that two people who are dating have some kind of feelings by that point. Come on, it's a far cry from planning a wedding and kids and a mortgage and...

I fell in love with my 4 year bf after 2 1/2 months.... There is not a set time limit on when to love someone. That's ridiculous.

"Some kind of feelings" is not the same as love. Saying "I love you," at two months makes him seem insecure and clingy.

This reminds me of Gilmore Girls, when Dean and Rory had been dating for 3 months and he built her a car and then said I love you for the first time. She panicked, replied that she loved the car, and ended up running away crying. People do crazy stuff when they're caught off guard.

Everyone is different. The girl OP is talking about wasn't ready.

Obviously she doesn't love him.