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Just an update, she is in the hospital doing better, and my throat is in tact. And for everyone telling me to leave her, its not gonna happen
By Eganstein / Monday 12 November 2012 00:50 / United States
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  free2speak  |  14

It could be a small town pharmacy and they just don't have it in stock? Or maybe it's out of stock in the area? Either way, this is definitely not something to take lightly. Get her meds for her or temporarily move out for your safety, OP. I would even go so far as to suggest having family members take turn watching her if OP doesn't feel comfortable leaving her alone. OP shouldn't think that his GF won't attack him out of love or whatever since she's not thinking rationally. Good luck to you, OP. support your GF but also look out for your own safety.

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  mamamiaaa_fml  |  12

40 - their pharmacy isn't out of stock there was an insurance mix up! But yes OP you should do something - I've read stories where people have killed their spouses or others while off their meds and if you don't its only going to get worse! Good luck!

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  Chosen_peas  |  2

If you don't want to take her to the ER, because of whatever reason, consider this. I work as a manager of a retail pharmacy and in such a situation, when it is a critical, non-narcotic medication, we can provide an emergency supply. It may be limited to two or three days at a time, but it will help and can be gotten again if necessary.

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I'm an ER nurse and that also means she could be kept there at least 3 days and sent to a facility for several days or weeks depending on how extreme the situation is. Yes they can help with medication but she won't like the situation. Have you talked to her family and found out how they dealt with her illness in the past?

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  iOceanus  |  18

Just admit that you can read her mind! Then, when she's back on her meds, all will be well.

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87, are you an idiot? As a schizophrenic myself, if I were told someone could actually read my mind in the middle of psychosis I would freak out immensely, and the consequences would be horrific. Even if that's a joke it's in poor taste. OP, call an ambulance and have her admitted. I can tell you from personal experience it's best for everyone if she's admitted to hospital. It ensures your safety and your girlfriend will be safer there too. Being off meds is horrible, being in hospital isn't great, but it's the better alternative. Good luck, OP, and don't feel guilty about it, she'll understand once she's out of the worst of the episode.

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  iOceanus  |  18

91) I apologize. I have no prior experience with schizophrenics so I wouldn't know. I realize I may have come across as insulting, like I said, I apologize, but you don't have to say I'm idiot for my ignorance on the subject.

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132- Thank you for your maturity here, I appreciate it. I accept your apology, and I in turn apologise for insulting you. I realise many people do lack the experience, but as you can imagine it's quite a personal topic.

By  i_wuz_nver_here  |  31

Too many negative votes, comment buried. Show the comment

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One question OP, don't take it offensively; why are you dating her if she's a bit crazy? Just wondering

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  tne201992  |  12

So does he call 911? lol

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Is it horrible that I burst out laughing at #5 comment?

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  bizarre_ftw  |  21

17 - how do you get a "usual" And why in the hell do you get a mental picture of someone running around with a decapitated chicken when you read 5's comment? Just, you know, a few tiny discrepancies I happened to notice after close reading :)

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  bizarre_ftw  |  21

^that sounds bitchier in writing than it did in my head. I assure you this is intended to be read with a humorous tone, for your comment made me laugh quite a bit, and stare a bit too now that I mention it (I just can't figure out how "like" became "with")

By  babalooisbabaloo  |  5

Run and hide OP, run and hide.

By  oj101  |  33

You'll have to console her and agree to her every whim, even though it might not necessarily be true. Survival is more important than pride. After all, you can't have pride if you're not alive, can you?

By  sugarshane007  |  20

Take her to the ER or get help with her. Either way, I would be prepared to sleep with one eye open and be alert at all times. Who knows what could happen. A schizophrenic is never predictable. Good luck OP.

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  goldfish78  |  11

19. You must be talking about depression. Common schizo are paranoid, they are more danger to others than their self.

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People living with schizophrenia tend to not be violent toward others, in fact, they are much more likely to harm themselves. And there is a subtype of schizophrenia that is centered around paranoid symptoms. Depending on which type of schizophrenia OP's girlfriend has, I don't she will be a risk to him.

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  goldfish78  |  11

OP's post was simply understandable by non retarded. He simply said the "she will cut his throat". Now tell me where is the risk for self harm. Idiots for those who thumbs down.

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I completely agree that it's understandable but, OP should at least try and get some sort of knowledge about his girlfriend's disorder especially if they are living together. The media has spun this disorder to be a violent one when in all actuality it's more so hell for the one suffering from the disorder than anyone else.

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  DocBastard  |  38

Goldfish, are you really that dense, or are you illiterate? About 20-40% of ALL schizophrenics attempt suicide. And about 25% of those will succeed. NOW do you get it? Good. Thanks for making me fucking spell it out for you. Now shut up.

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  sugarshane007  |  20

There ya go Doc. Clearly Goldfish doesn't understand anything. You never said Schizophrenics aren't a potential to harm others, just that they are all likely to harm themselves. I don't know how some people make it through daily life.

By  AussieChild  |  22

Take her to the ER or local doctor- most will be able to give you samples of her meds until her prescription can be filled. And just remember, even though it's scary for you, and hard to see someone you care about like that, it's so much worse for her, and she's probably suffering from the withdrawals too.

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  chellyX92  |  8

Pharmacies can only give an emergency refill with dr. permission. It'd be easier to go to ER or if they are available, psychologist because her records are more easily accessible.

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  alycion  |  26

Any psychiatrist worth a damn would give permission. I know all of the ones I have seen (I move a lot so lots of docs) have a 24 hour emergency number as well to take care of situations like this.

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  tnlander  |  20

Actually, the pharmacy can give a one time additional refill on any prescription without doctors consent. I have worked as a pharmacy tech for six years.

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  chellyX92  |  8

Oh i worked at a doctors office for 5 years i have gotten countless calls from pharmacies for emergency refills that they needed our doctors permission for. I don't know the exact nitty gritty but it usually just took a quick fax with a signature to fix the issue.

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