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By  joliesbebes  |  0

well in situations like these it's best to ask for feedback. you could try "what am I doing wrong" or "what would you like me to do?" if she doesn't say anything then at least you tried?

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  alexFYL  |  11

FTR there is not really any such thing as "loose", the vagina is basically elastic. Even if you go from a giant 6" diameter dildo down to your bf's 1.5" diameter penis, the vagina would still retain its original shape. It's like a balloon. The only time it's loose is after child birth, and even then it goes back to... well, more or less the original shape. Kegels help. ... Furthermore, being loose would not change how bad the OP's lovemaking is.

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  kingtz  |  6

27, while you're correct that all vaginas are generally elastic, there is no specific or consistent elasticity and varies from woman to woman. Thus, is it not possible that some vaginas are less elastic and taut than others, and therefore, considered as "looser"?

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  jane79  |  0

sorry op your girl sounds like she needs taught how to give constructive criticism. if you want to stay with her then you should ask her what she wants or likes or have her show you what it is that gets the job done, everyones different in what satisfies them so you can make this in to a g game and make it fun don't get down on yourself

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Whether or not OP's gf is "loose" has nothing to do with the FML. Notice how he phrased the act as "making love"? Obviously the OP cares very much about the girl and was trying to satisfy her, and for her to criticize his performance when all she's doing is just laying there is well, just plain bitchy. It's not always the guy's fault ladies, reciprocation is key and can make an entire world of difference. OP, you deserve better, get rid of her ASAP.

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Yeah I guess I should've caught that, so used to reading these in a bf/gf context, not that I think there's anything wrong with being gay, it's all good. All the same OP, your gf needs to be knocked down a peg or two, because it is just as much her fault and she shouldn't be attacking your self esteem like that if she really does love you as much as you love her.

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Turnpike Twister, sometimes the term "making love" is more comfortable for some, there ARE people out there who have sex without loving each other, and they still call it making love. And I'm of the mind that her significant other was a lot more sensitive than most people would be... at the very least, OP knows she needs to improve, and her girlfriend respected her enough to let her know it wasn't working. Op could have ASKED how to make it better. People who just fake it don't really care enough about their partner to want the relationship work in the long run.

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i made a guy stop in the middle of sex, told him i was tired and sent him home. cause he was horrible. he would put his whole body weight on me. i couldnt breathe let alone enjoy it

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  Igor_g5  |  0

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  arianylas  |  3

Reference #68. >.> You don't know anything. Women come in all sizes, not just in body (as in tall or short), but also their vaginas. There is no such thing as "loose." It implies that having lots of sex somehow makes the vagina permanently bigger, and it's just not true. Sometimes it can become more elastic with more sex, easier to stretch and shrink back. Sometimes not. Sometimes a girl is naturally bigger or smaller than the "average," or has a greater or lesser elasticity. But vaginas never stretch and "don't come back." I don't care how many women you've been with (manwhore), it doesn't make you more knowledgeable about the female body.

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  logcabin69  |  0

yeah and men's penises shrink if they have sex with different size women.... sounds dumb huh. if a woman can go back to size after pushing a baby out,, I'm sure even the biggest cock wouldn't phase the vagina!!

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  zakkyzebra  |  11

27, if you keep a balloon held taut for a while(or release the air out of one that's been blown up for days) you can clearly see it's not as tight as before. So, if she masturbated with a hardcore dildo and passes out with it inside of her.... *shudders*

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I bet if you knew op was a girl your presumptions on op just "lying there" and her apparently being bitchy would change wouldn't it? Because you dude bros just have to defend each other

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  IscoreOnU  |  19

Ollallie but think of it this way. You dont have sex till your married. And when you do their terrible and your stuck with them. After all what's love without sex? And bad sex means no sex. From what I hear no sex means relationship doom.

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YES! How many idiotic men out there think they are good in bed because their previous girlfriends spent the relationship faking? Good that someone can tell their partner that they aren't up to par! (Yes, I know OP is a girl... guys would just make an excuse as to why it's the girl's fault)

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  Mitcha857  |  0

I honestly would rather take constructive criticism though rather than like most girls do and fake orgasms and basically lie to me at the most intimate moment in a relationship

By  zach456  |  0

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By  joliesbebes  |  0

well in situations like these it's best to ask for feedback. you could try "what am I doing wrong" or "what would you like me to do?" if she doesn't say anything then at least you tried?

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  Daerauko  |  0

yeah maybe it's OP's first lesbian experience and needs a little guidance. her girlfriend should do more than just lay there not having fun and then just complain when she doesn't get what she wants.

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  DesB  |  7

Fist her in the front an the back! Then say "How's that for ya!!!" Bet she will moan an groan then...maybe not in pleaser but she will... Ugh that hurts me just thinking about it...

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  awesomeooo3  |  0

Hmm, at least she's honest I suppose? :S Rather than your girlfriend saying that, she should encourage you and make suggestions on how you can improve. Sorry OP :/

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  felipe87  |  2

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