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#37, no, it's not hard. And yes, #3 as OBVIOUSLY being sarcastic. If you dont get it, then I'm not the one to be blamed. And #41 said all the rest that was needed to say, thank you #41!

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23 that might be the girls you deal with but I know a lot of girls who just blow it off unless they're very aggressive with it. If they're good with the rejection, no need, if not then report.

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  ThatOneChick856

#23- I'm so tired of people like you who always somehow tend to pull out the sexist generalizations. No, most girls do NOT pull the sexual harassment card. Of all the girls I've ever heard from on their stance on this sort of thing, only 5% have said that it's a good idea to report the person for harassment. And of that 5%, about 3-4% said it /jokingly/. Girls make up about half the world and you REALLY think that /every single one/ is a psycho bitch who would pull this shit?

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  leogachi

@62 To be fair, he didn't say most girls. False sexual harassment reports are filed all the time and it's usually women who file them. Is it fair? No. Is it true? Yes.

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It's a knee jerk reaction. Nowadays, guys are so scared of women filing sexual harassment claims against them for no reason (and this is incredibly common in office relationships when a women is simply mad at her boyfriend) that they feel they have to take the aggressive stance. Moral of the story: Never ask a co-worker out on a date. All you're doing is asking for trouble.

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OP, you should go to HR first and report the occurrence; before they become jaded by his skewed account. Does the part of the office you were talking to him in have cameras? Then they can simply play back and see what happened.

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I've dated/slept with a lot of coworkers. Honestly I can say it doesn't end well 90% of the time, but there is a small occurance where it's not bad. Even great. You don't know where you'll meet the love of your life, and at work can be that place. The coworker in the FML is being immature and overdramatic most likely. OP asked them on a date not a sexy rendevous under their desk.

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I'm actually in a very solid relationship with someone I met at work... We've been together almost a year and the only issues its caused are our managers watching us like hawks...

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I hate the idea of dating co-workers, because so much can go wrong (that said, my current - 4 year relationship is with a co-worker). However, people work 40-80 hours a week (in the states) it makes a lot of sense that the place you spend the most time is the place you're gonna meet someone.

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  leogachi

@74 All of the replies are defending relationships between co-workers. I'm pretty sure everyone understood the sarcasm.

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That's if he gives a honest and accurate account of what happened. He may lie through his teeth in order to secure a large pay off. And this is why I am grateful my workplace has a no fraternizing policy between workers.

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