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Talk to him about it if it's really a problem for you. Maybe he could get you off first, before he goes for the bronze. (I would say 'gold' but unless he was rocking your world in that minute, he doesn't deserve a medal.)

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Although progress is progress, that's a shockingly small amount of progress. Where was he at the beginning of those six months? Ejaculation @ pants down? Zip down? belt off? Poor fella!

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YDI. Op sex is a two way street. what have you been doing to helo him get better? there are numbing agents, masturbation before sex . the second "nut" usually takes much longer so a bj before sex might help. in a relationship if you want things to go well you have to invest the effort.

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This may be an incredibly ignorant question, (I'm ready for the down votes and "google it" answers) but does this situation happen often? Or rather, does "finishing quickly" happen to a lot of guys?

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#75 - It is the most common orgasm-related problem for men. It has been reported to happen in between 25% and 35% of men, not necessarily all the time, but many have reported periods in their lives or recent years where it has become a prevalent issue.

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Relationships aren't just about sex, but in the majority of adult relationships, it is an important factor. Finding someone sexually attractive and wanting to share that intimacy with them is what makes a relationship different to just being good friends. Dissatisfaction will eventually lead to resentment and that will cause them problems elsewhere in their relationship. They need to talk about this.

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If she leaves him or worse, cheats on him, because of something stupid like that then he'd be better off, but you could simply let him finish then have him please you in other ways. Sex is never everything.

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I've been married for 2 years and been together 3. sadly he gets of really easily thank god not 5 mins. I wouldn't leave him just cuz sometimes he gets before me, but then at least he is nice enough to get me off or I can use a toy. no. relationships aren't all about sex but damn is an orgasm good during sex!

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sex is a two way street. what ever happened to equality of the sexes. Where does it say it's the man's job to be good at sex. More women need to be proactive in their pleasure. sharing with your partner what pleases you will make things better for the both persons. Kudos to OP for sticking in there. Sex is not everything. But since she seems to enjoy it she should make finding ways for him to get better something they can do together.

Talk to him about it if it's really a problem for you. Maybe he could get you off first, before he goes for the bronze. (I would say 'gold' but unless he was rocking your world in that minute, he doesn't deserve a medal.)

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