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FML - The follow-up

Today, a guy took me to meet his parents on a second date. I stopped answering his calls afterwards, but he's just left me a voice-mail informing me that he's in love with me. I'm scared. FML

Jessch15 Say more :
Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.
By Jessch15 / Friday 13 January 2012 12:45 / United States
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By  Angelastic_fml  |  18

You stopped answering his calls, just like that, without even telling him you weren't interested in dating him any more? Why? How do you expect him to react to that? As far as he knows, you're still interested but temporarily not near your phone.

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  girl112891  |  7

I've experienced that. He wanted to take me the first time too! He would fill up my voice messages. He even told me to delete all my voice messages because he can't leave me anymore. He told me he's going to buy a ring, I told him not to call me. He called still!!! I met him at school and was scared to go back on campas!!!

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  Werken247  |  14

#103 typing out his FML: Today, I went on the second date with the girl I love, afterwards I took her to meet my parents. Then she stopped returning my calls. I left her a voice mail telling her how much I love her, now she's changed her number. FML

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  Jessch15  |  4

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common and he was getting clingy very quickly. Of course I talked to him about it. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops. Im not a bitch.

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  Jessch15  |  4

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

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  Jessch15  |  4

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

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  bhangu023  |  0

Or, instead of ignoring the guy give him The decency of a reply. I'm not saying he's not creepy but just maby letting him knw you feel differently, it will likely stop him from doing anything else. If that doesn't work, then run.

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  DrMime  |  10

Ouch! Sounds like someone is a bit clingy, keep in mind that if a guy comes on to you too strongly, then you'll need a good clean towel. But seriously, I wouldn't go near his parents. If he's in love with you after the first date, then obviously those 'parents' of his have done something horrible! Best not break bread with them, (among other things).

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  TheDrifter  |  23

If op put out on the first date and just stopped answering after the second he might just think she didn't pay her bill. That or he's outside her window right now.

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  music_woman1  |  11

Good points.. I don't really have much trust these days, I'm really frightened of getting stalked so I don't really have a place to say anything, it probably won't be elpful

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  mango260  |  9

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